Interpersonal Relationships:
Working with Resistant People

You have been asked to lead a change initiative. It could be a small matter of selecting a theme for the next company picnic, to spear heading an acquisition or assuming the role of head teacher. Change triggers fear reactions. Understanding the fears will help you to find communication strategies to reduce the amount of resistance.

Kotter and Schlesinger in 1979 wrote about a model for change. Their Six Change Approaches has been widely quoted and debated but the simplicity of it still rings true today. According to Kotter and Schlesinger (1979) the four reasons that certain people resist change are:

  1. Parochial self-interest: concerned with the implications of the change on them
  2. Misunderstanding: communication problems and inadequate information
  3. Low tolerance to change: value stability and security
  4. Different assessments of the situation: disagree on rationale for the change, fail to see the advantages

Cause: Parochial Self-interest
This type of resister values acceptance. Change for them triggers a fear of failure or a fear of rejection. This person worries that the change may uncover their lack of skill or knowledge and cause them to be rejected as incompetent. They may be worried they will lose their job especially if there have been other indicators that this is a possibility. They may also feel slighted that they were not chosen to be the leader if they value power. They are consumed by their needs and can not whole heartedly see the change as a positive step for the company or organization. This type of resistance can also occur when someone is promoted to the leadership role and then resists the complaints or feedback from their subordinates.
Solution: Reassurance and training
The solution to this type of resistance is reassurance and training. Reassure them that there will not be lay offs or reassignments if this truly is the case. Offer training programs to everyone concerned. Do not single them out as needing training. Offer additional optional training that can be completed discretely and/or create an online library with reference materials that they can refer to as needed. If you feel that they are disappointed that they are not the leader, see if there is an opportunity for them to lead a sub-committee. If your leader is resisting your suggestions, understand that they are fearful that their incompetence and insecurities may be uncovered. Reassure them on the things they do well and pick your challenges carefully.

Cause: Misunderstanding
Sometimes the cause of resistance is a simple matter of lack of communication. Little or no communication sets off the fear of the unknown and can make people feel out of control. If they are left with many questions and no answers, this can lead to panic and anxiety which can lead to revolt and insider back talking.
Solution: Communicate now and continuously
Immediately send out a communication including the answers to frequent questions. Start a FAQ section on your intranet, newsletter or other form of communication. Hold meetings to discuss the changes, the timelines and what is needed from the participants. This last point needs to be emphasized. The participants need to feel that they are part of the process. Assigning them tasks empowers them and helps them to regain control of their destiny and promotes buy in.

Cause: Low Tolerance to Change
Some people thrive in a fast paced, constantly evolving environments. They can make decisions quickly and get excited at the possibility of improvements. Others like things to stay the same. They value consistency, stability, independence, order, tranquility and slow, careful decision making. When they commit, they commit for the long haul because it has taken them a great deal of time and energy to commit in the first place.
Solution: Empathy and respect
Empathize with them that change is difficult. Understand their need for independence and offer solutions that will allow them to adapt to the change as slowly as possible and by their initiative. Give them options. Host optional meetings and post information or training resources that they can access when they feel comfortable to do so. Keep them well informed of the changes but don’t overwhelm them with information. Baby steps are what they need to take so create a timeline that reflects the baby steps. As most change initiatives have to happen quickly, this type of resistance can cause a lot of frustration. Determine the value of having this person or people on board. They may be a better fit if transferred to a different department or group that is not impacted with the change immediately. This will allow them time to adjust and then adapt to the changes once they see the benefits in action.

Cause: Different Assessments of the Situation
This type of resistance occurs when someone feels that there are better solutions and disputes the reasons behind the decision to make the change. They may have come up with what they think is a better solution and may have a better understanding of the frontline of the operations. This type of resistance happens frequently when a decision is made at head office and the operations personnel are not consulted.
Solution: Give them a voice and get them on the crusade
What is your cause? Not your mission, goal or vision...what is your cause? In a terrific book about change management and being quick to move in the marketplace, It’s not the BIG that eat the SMALL …it’s the FAST that eat the SLOW: How to use Speed as a Competitive Tool in Business by Jason Jennings and Laurence Haughton (HarperCollins, 2000), they stress that it is important to define your cause to launch a crusade. A cause is big. It is transformational. It creates passion, energy and drive. If you can not find a big reason for why you are leading this change initiative – one that people can get behind – it will be a tough sell. For example:

"AOL’s cause is: ‘To build a global medium as central to people’s lives as the telephone or television, only more useful.’”

Spend some time thinking about what this change will mean in the big picture and sell it to resisters as a way to make a real impact towards the cause. Give them the opportunity to voice their concerns and really listen to them. Try to utilize at least some of the feedback and show flexibility in your planning. They may understand the frontline better than you do. Respect that fact and appreciate their input. You may learn a great deal and prevent disasters later when the changes are simply not practical to implement.

For most, change is difficult. It triggers fears which can lead to reactions that cause tension and bad feelings. To keep harmony as the leader, it will be crucial for you to identify the various needs of your team through the transition period. No one said it would be easy, but if you handle this initiative well, you will be seen as value add and progressive. In this world of constant change, it is a skill well worth honing.


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